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Fearing You’ll Get Dumped Boosts

Just Fearing You’ll Get Dumped Boosts Odds Of Breakup
– Study Finds –

It may seem like common sense, but simply worrying that you’ll get dumped only increases your likelihood of a breakup, a new study finds.

Researchers at Vita-Salute San Raffaele University in Italy recruited relationship partners to participate in a psychological manipulation experiment, hoping to see how fear of a relationship ending affected feelings of attraction and commitment toward one’s significant other.

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A wedding between a man and woman is a vow not only in word but action.[*] The holiest of events for which when giving your word God pays attention. And as the Study Finds no one wants to give of themselves to a partner that is only 99% with the program – at least noble people don’t.

It is better not to vow than to make a vow and not fulfill it.

Do not let your mouth lead you to sin. And do not protest to the temple messenger, “My vow was a mistake.” Why should God be angry at what you say and destroy the work of your hands? (Ecclesiastes 5:5-6)

If you are going to get married, or for that matter, just shack-up, or even date-up, such is a commitment of giving yourself to the other person. In God’s eyes, you are giving your word, or beginning to give your word “until death do you part.”

On the one hand, the watch-word is to be careful in the giving of your word either through words or actions.1

On the other hand, there is tremendous, tangible, real security knowing that your partner in this life will never, ever forsake you – no matter what.

‘For this reason a man will leave his father and mother and be united to his wife, and the two will become one flesh.’ So they are no longer two, but one. Therefore what God has joined together, let man not separate.” (Mark 10:7-9)

In God’s eyes it is not possible to seperate that which is one flesh. I cannot divorce myself. It is not game over till life is over.


In the same way, if you choose to attend a church best to look for a pastor that doesn’t high tail it and run at the first sign of trouble. When one gives his, or her word before God to lay down their life for another – best to be found on Judgement Day to have done so. Those self-sacrificing preachers who are following close to Jesus will be like Him and “lay down” their life “for the sheep.”

The hired hand is not the shepherd who owns the sheep. So when he sees the wolf coming, he abandons the sheep and runs away. Then the wolf attacks the flock and scatters it. The man runs away because he is a hired hand and cares nothing for the sheep.

“I am the good shepherd; I know my sheep and my sheep know me– just as the Father knows me and I know the Father–and I lay down my life for the sheep. (John 10:12-15)

Aw, but a faithful man who can find?

Many a man claims to have unfailing love, but a faithful man who can find? (Proverbs 20:6)

[*] Sub-Note: Dealing With Sexual Sin

Quick run.

Run like hell from sexual immorality.

Flee from sexual temptation without looking back and do not slow down.

 Flee from sexual immorality. All other sins a man commits are outside his body, but he who sins sexually sins against his own body. (1 Corinthians 6:18)

*This post should not be confused with same-sex fraud marriages. Such relationships should be dumped, broken or ran from in microseconds of repentance – as such are complete errors of sin.

Once broken never look back or you will be taken in by such sinning again. Get on with the much to do that requires much be done in righteousness, life, and joy.

Once you have set yourself free from sexual immorality never, ever look back. (Luke 9:62) Jesus replied, “No one who puts his hand to the plow and looks back is fit for service in the kingdom of God.” 

Don’t pack, don’t say goodbye, don’t say you’re going to leave – let your actions be game over.

Now that you know, get out, get going and get as far away as possible never looking back.

Don’t say you’re going to break-up – just break-up and leave others to their shock and hurt.

Today, this moment is your chance at eternal forgiveness, eternal righteous and eternal life – break up and move on.

The kingdom of heaven is like treasure hidden in a field. When a man found it, he hid it again, and then in his joy went and sold all he had and bought that field. (Matthew 13:44)


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Tuesday, December 5, 2017
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Article Reference

(studyfinds.org)—After disclosing personal information about their relationship’s dynamic, participants were presented with different forms of evidence against feeling optimistic about their partnership, such as statistics showing the failure rate of relationships, or false feedback that attempted to convince them that their romance was already on the ropes.

Subsequently, participants were asked to indicate how dedicated they felt toward both their partner and overall relationship.

The researchers found that levels of romance and commitment declined precipitously when participants were told there was either a high or low chance of an imminent breakup.